Dating girl borrows money
I’ve been keeping a tab and mine owes me 3,000 (yes three thousand) at this point.He just keeps saying he’ll pay me back, but I’ve yet to see the day.” Okay, first I want to address the whole “Who pays? There’s a big debate on who should pay for dates and things.
He should want to spend time with you, not be using you as a ticket to things he can’t afford himself.
He may not be consciously using you, but his expectation that you pay for everything is a serious problem (and his parents aren’t helping any by footing his bills).
It’s hard when you love and care about someone to see them struggle, but if they’re not willing to repay you or make their own way, it’s time to say goodbye.
The vast majority of people using dating sites are sincere and honest in the information they provide and in their reasons for joining.
I think it may be time for him to grow up and stand on his own, if he can’t you really need to cut him loose and find a guy that is a package and not a project.”“Tell him what bothers you.